Its been ages since I paid this blog any attention; over the past few weeks its really been on my mind. I have had the desire to write again and share my journey. Whether it helps you in your journey or just gives you something to laugh at, my hope is that you enjoy the content enough to keep coming back and implement my wonderful knowledge into your own journey.
I’ve been on this health and fitness journey going on 6 years now! Lets just say its had a lot of ups and downs, mountains and valleys, good and bad. When I feel like I have it down, life throws a wrench in my wheel and I end up flipping over the bars, falling flat on my ass! I honestly believe that there can be a lesson in everything you go through, and that is where it gets good.
The one thing I do know for sure is that I love helping others in their own journey. My accountability groups have been my saving grace. This is where I learned, in teaching others, that fitness is about balance. You cant be good at it all the time. Yet you cant ignore it either. The trick is in finding what works best for you. What works well for one person may not work well for you. Its about listening to your body and responding instead of just throwing your hands up and saying F*** this!
Lets chat schedules and having a plan! I’m totally the type of gal to go against the grain and do my own thing. Most fitness guru’s will tell you that you need to schedule your workouts in to your daily plan. Here’s the deal….. I’ve tried that and it DOES NOT work for me. WHY? Its makes it feel like a chore. I guess that is the point, to make it feel like a non-negotiable, but what is the fun in that?! To me, fitness is supposed to be something you look forward to, not something you have to do.
Through trail and error I learned for myself that “scheduling” fitness in to my day will not work. Instead what I do is not allow myself to go to sleep until that workout is done. I decide each day when is best, for that specific day, to do my workout. I rarely ever wake up and feel like working out. Currently, my best fit has been to do it right when I get home from work but before the kids get home from school. That way I’m not distracted and can enjoy the full workout without interruptions. Now this doesn’t always happen but for the most part it does. Some days, I just can’t squeeze it in during that time frame so I’m doing it after dinner while the kids are winding down and getting ready for bed. Lately, I’m hopping into bed as soon as the kids are tucked in so its important to me to have it done before they are in bed. But in the event that I just cant get it in before the kids bedtime, you better bet your buns that I’m doing it as soon as they are in bed.
See, I make it a non-negotiable for the day, just not for a specific time. If I don’t get my workout done before bed, I will lay there with tons of guilt on my mind and most likely get out of bed and do it. I’ve worked really hard on changing my mindset over the past few years. You better bet that your mindset plays a huge role in your success!
My point in all this is, what works for others may not work for you! You determine what works for you and keep trying different things until you find the fit that is right for you. If you want success bad enough you will continue to try. I can tell you for certain though, that having an accountability partner/group is a MUST. The No. 1 comment from my accountability groups is that, the group helped them be successful when they were not able to be successful on their own previously. There is something about knowing that others are watching you, that helps hold you accountable. So if you don’t have a partner, find one or connect with me to get you plugged into our group. We will help you be successful!
One other trick I have up my sleeve is that I occasionally hire a fitness trainer. When life gets busy and I find myself more often that not, skipping my workouts, I open up my arsenal of tricks and get me that trainer. I usually only have to hire them for a few months to get me feeling on track and ready to proceed on my own again. You see, we all need help and accountability. Just as what works for one person may not work for another, what once worked for me/you wont always work. When we let down our walls and admit that its okay to fail, that’s when we begin to have success. Allow yourself grace, allow yourself failure, so that you can allow yourself joy and success. Trust in the journey and the process. Be willing to extend that hand out for help when the time comes. Don’t be to proud to step back a few steps and start again.